Today's Marriage

I swear, I am very saddened how the marriage institution is going down the drain these days.We young people are no longer responsible or disciplined enough to stick it out in any given relationship and I fear that in the next five years, marriage as we know it, may become old fashion. Sometime ago i posted a comment on my facebook page on "Loving the one you hook well well" I was talking to one of my friends who at 38 still can't keeps telling me he is waiting for his Love and having about three different girls in his hands ! After a while he said "why must marriage be forever or for better for worse, and couldn’t it be for maybe a few years as mutually agreed." ?

I believe in Family and Marriage. I believe that every human being is created to have a desire to be married and some have a desire to be single. But most of us want to be married. So, you CANT have a healthy marriage with unhealthy habits. Whether or not a young couple stay together often depends on why they got married in the first place. Take it from me, It is not lack of love, but lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Being married to the same person for almost 5 years has thought me that marriage is no moimoi, neither is it beans and rice. Both parties must work at it daily and must give all of himself /herself everyday, forever. For me, am committed to ensuring my family stands, because the devil we know is better than the Angel to come.

Marriage like I keep saying is how we maturely deal with our incompatibility rather than our compatibility.

Nothing is constant ! when the tools are down the mechanical engineers are called to fix it....Most times they fix wrongly because of there biased minds to the tools... Wedding is nothing marriage is the WORK TO BE DONE !