Today's Marriage

I swear, I am very saddened how the marriage institution is going down the drain these days.We young people are no longer responsible or disciplined enough to stick it out in any given relationship and I fear that in the next five years, marriage as we know it, may become old fashion. Sometime ago i posted a comment on my facebook page on "Loving the one you hook well well" I was talking to one of my friends who at 38 still can't keeps telling me he is waiting for his Love and having about three different girls in his hands ! After a while he said "why must marriage be forever or for better for worse, and couldn’t it be for maybe a few years as mutually agreed." ?

I believe in Family and Marriage. I believe that every human being is created to have a desire to be married and some have a desire to be single. But most of us want to be married. So, you CANT have a healthy marriage with unhealthy habits. Whether or not a young couple stay together often depends on why they got married in the first place. Take it from me, It is not lack of love, but lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Being married to the same person for almost 5 years has thought me that marriage is no moimoi, neither is it beans and rice. Both parties must work at it daily and must give all of himself /herself everyday, forever. For me, am committed to ensuring my family stands, because the devil we know is better than the Angel to come.

Marriage like I keep saying is how we maturely deal with our incompatibility rather than our compatibility.

Nothing is constant ! when the tools are down the mechanical engineers are called to fix it....Most times they fix wrongly because of there biased minds to the tools... Wedding is nothing marriage is the WORK TO BE DONE ! 

FOCUS

Don't ever let people take you off your game. You can often identify 2nd Placers by their 3 Cs. They Criticize Condemn & Complain. Channel your efforts in a positive direction towards your dreams. When someone gets you to prove them wrong, it's negative motivation and they are now in control of your emotions. Proving to yourself that you are Right is Positive Motivation and you have now maintained control. R Kelly once said "Elephants Don't swat at Flies"
I NEVER GIVE CONTROL OF ME TO ANYONE!!! I'm too Valuable and so are you!!

INSPIRATION FRIDAY

What happens when you pour enough hot water on top of the head of someone? The same as pouring negative down to those you lead, the group dies... It amazes me how so many people kill their own organizations themselves. Negative information that has no purpose not only breads distrust for the subject of the conversation but it breads more for the messenger. The next time you have a less than uplifting message for someone you are leading, remember this photo and understand that you are about to destroy what you have built... Remember negative goes upline only, positive to your success team and cross line.

LESSONS FROM THE TRIUMPHANT ENTRY

Prayer Points on Today's Open Heavens ( Monday April, 18th 2016) - LESSONS FROM THE TRIUMPHANT ENTRY
1.I worship you Father, the Omnipotent, the Omnipresent and the Omniscient, God.
2.Thank you Father for creating me for your pleasure and for your purpose.
3.Father, let me be eternally useful for your glory.
4.Father locate and remember me today by your awesome power and mercy, and let there be divine intervention and solution, to every challenge in my life.
5.Father, command your deliverance upon every area of my life today, in Jesus' name.
6.Father let every invisible rope tying me down to the same spot all these years be roasted, by your fire, in Jesus' name.
7.Father, let every power tying me down like a goat, release me and let me go, in Jesus' name.
8.Father, let every opposition to my success and destiny fulfilment be scattered and frustrated, in Jesus' name.
9.Father, let every yoke of stagnancy and delays, in any area of my life be terminated and broken today, in Jesus' name.
10.Father, let all your prophecies and promises for my life be fulfilled, at their appointed time, without delay, in Jesus' name.
11.Holy Father, take absolute control of my life today, in Jesus' name.
12.Your Personal petitions. ( Phil 4:6)
13.In Jesus' name I pray.
(Jn 14:13-14; 15:16)
14.Thank you Father for answered prayers.
(1 Thes 5:18)

Olajumoke Orisaguna ( the bread Seller New home)

 Photo credit :Sujimoto

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FAYOSE THE UNSERIOUS GOVERNOR

He started from Ekiti state Nigeria, but today his joke has reached China !Congratulations to the people of Ekiti state as their Governor has once made history as the biggest joker. Cant imagine a Governor posing behind an empty podium to pretend he his addressing the people !